Monday, 8 October 2018

Musings from Mpumalanga


There are several things I learnt in Mpumalanga this week. Perhaps I’ll put them in a vague order in terms of the rhythm of life in a typical day...

Dawn is not quiet in Schoemansdal. It is loudly and enthusiastically welcomed by every chicken and rooster on every small piece of land, who in turn wake up the multitudes of birds, dogs and livestock in the region. It’s a chorus that is amazingly harmonious and vibrant from 4am until about 6.30, when the sounds of people take over. Soft greetings, children’s voices on the way to school, a local tractor, bakkies starting up and easing over the dirt roads to reach the R597 which is the primary road to Swaziland.

I sat on my step every morning, somewhat blearily, gazing at the surrounding hills which morphed from blued out haziness to something more in focus. The coffee definitely had something to do with the transition, not just the rising light. Oh, and contact lenses helped with getting more focus too. There is such simple and heart-filling satisfaction in starting your morning listening to the sounds of a village waking up, and welcoming the day with reflection.

I’ll skip breakfast, and move onto transport. Piled into a Mahindra semi 4x4, we bumped down to the main road and turned right. There seems to be no urgent rush, no hooting and no anger. Instead, drivers greet each other and we passed other vehicles unhurriedly making their way wherever they are going. A couple of donkeys on the right, beautiful Nguni cattle on the left, tractors, women setting up roadside stalls. I loved the colourful bra shop aka gazebo draped with all sizes and colours of brassieres and the rows of grass brooms neatly laid out alongside. A one-stop shop.

By now the kids are all in school so the few that wander are either bunking, unenrolled or possibly stateless with no identity documents. If you have no birth certificate you have no access to schooling in this part of South Africa. Pretty tough for the kids who had no say in obtaining the certificates in the first place.

Thembalethu Nkomazi, situated at Zakhele Training Centre, has colourful buildings and a roof that is being scraped down and sprayed green right now. The workers diligently continued under the hot Nkomazi sun. To the right are shaded veggie gardens and a huge shaded area for veggie seedlings, to my left an indigenous tree nursery and tunnel for tree seedings.  A huge heap of used plastic soft drink bottles will be turned into planters for seedlings before they are transplanted to the more often used black plastic bags that I see in nurseries. Near the bottles is a large heap of mulch and compost.

A young man, wearing an old t-shirt and faded pants, greets me. He has muscles that yuppy Capetonians work out for, a bright open face and a welcoming smile. This young man went to college, got his degree and has come back to manage the agricultural side of the project. He’s researched which vegetables grow well in the region and has a team of people to help him plant seeds, water them and get them ready for market. He’s instrumental in planning and strategy and always eager to learn. I was impressed by his quiet knowledge, hands on attitude and welcome. As I moved to join our meetings he had already returned to the thatching grass being laid down to protect the new seedlings planted in his garden. They’ll feed the kids who come to the afterschool programme here. I envied the satisfaction that comes from working with the soil… and the lack of snails!

Later in the afternoon I heard kids laughing in his garden. They were learning to care for the garden and watering the plants. Sprays of water arched in the hot sun and small faces giggled in glee and cooled off alongside the tomatoes and lettuces being refreshed.

In Nkomazi there is time to sit down and have a chat. The local high school teacher, denuded of his students, rests under an awning with two out-of-school teens. I greeted them and sat down for a chat. They were keen to learn about Cape Town, so I pulled out my phone and shared some photos. They’d never seen a starfish before. They ooh’d over the sea. Then they aah’d over photos of Vredenburg on the West Coast where communities that are not that different to Schoemansdal cram into settlements. The illegal electricity lines over the telephone poles hit an immediate response. In Schoemansdal most homes have electricity and you just don’t see the spiderwebs of lines over a village. The conversation moved to things youth struggle with. We talked about social media and actually knowing who the person was who was your “friend”. And brand. How are you portraying yourself. The questions are the same in Cape Town.

As evening settles children head home, tractors putt-putt back and cows low. The heat starts to dissipate and the village quiets. The sun makes a brief statement as golden light glows behind tall jacaranda trees and iron woods. The bush rustles as it settles. A mango falls from the tree next to my bungalow. By dark everyone is indoors, and by 9pm most lights are out and people are already asleep. Dawn comes early here. The sound of birds is replaced by frogs and mosquitos, a good reminder to find your spray and put on long pants.

When you walk to your room it’s essential to have a light to ensure you don’t tread on the resident puffies or cobras, even though I have not seen any so far. The rustle of the blue headed lizard has me jumping. 

As I unlock my door, I look up at the pale skinned dark eyed geckos waiting for unwary insects near the light. I silently wish them “good hunting” and step into my room. Nkomazi is already mostly asleep.



Friday, 14 September 2018

Adrenal me

It's been a crazy hazy week - which kind of started when I found out that I had TWO annual reports to put together. The first one was fine and I had the deadlines nicely lined up. Finding out on Wednesday (that's two days ago) that the deadline for the second report, which is always historically a HUGE task and mass of raw information that has not been sifted, ratcheted my world up into a no-sleep haze. That's the hazy part. Trying to do it all, now that has been crazy!

Still, in the middle of it there are moments like this:

Luke walking into my bedroom: Hello world. Hello Mom. Hello Dad. 
As he goes past the mirror: Hello me.

And of the course, the morning strawberry inspection.
Me: Choose which 3 you want. They're all huge. 
Luke: I'll just take two. I don't like the look of those ones.

Seriously!?!

With typhoons and hurricanes bearing down on two major coastlines, deadlines jumping at me, going to bed after 11 each night this week and losing all sensation in my fingertips because they get so cold in my little home office, I am so very grateful to my hubby for pausing me on Monday morning and, while I was trying to cram in a visit to Jhb on route to the furthest northern corner of the country for work and find umpteen flights (they were all expensive!), quietly say "Why don't you just go straight there and back? It'll be simpler."  You know what? I did it. And it is simpler. And it is a lot of money, but I'll be with my client in 4 hours instead of 12. I am worth it. (Gosh, I really said that!)

I am grateful for the people in my life who make me laugh, who offer quiet wisdom and a shoulder to let it all out on when it gets too much. Oh, and for the cat for her obsession with paper packets! If I thought I was tightly wound this morning, she sent me into the air in shock when I pushed the paper bag with my foot and it leapt too!

#AdrenalinGratefulCatsHubbiesKids (and yes, annual reports which will pay the bills!)  Viva Friday and another 10-15 pages of design, copy, editing, photos, graphics and layout.

Monday, 3 September 2018

Knees

TPT EPH 6:And to the caretakers of the flock[h] I say, do what is right with your people by forgiving them when they offend you, for you know there is a Master in heaven that shows no favoritism.

KERRY VERSION  And to the parents of the children, I say do what is right with your children by forgiving them and loving them unreservedly when they offend you and shout at you and refuse to do what you have asked, for you know that your Father in heaven forgives you when you reject Him and His requests. 

Darn. Ouch. #hitmykneesthisweek

Friday, 31 August 2018

Intimacy

In-to-me-you-see
My incomplete me
Into my heart you see
Tenderly
And you gaze
And I give
And light touches the rustiness of me
The dustiness
Your golden light
That cleanses me and brings me
To
Intimacy

Wednesday, 22 August 2018

Me, a curator?

I'm exploring some big words right now: purpose, strengths, hope. My definitions are definitely changing as I dig in a bit deeper and take time to think a bit more. 

It's quite exciting actually. 

So here is the word I researched using the generic online dictionary called Google. 

CURATE

Origin: Middle English: from medieval Latin curatus, from Latin cura ‘care’.

CURATE (VERB)

- select, organize, and look after the items in (a collection or exhibition) 

- select the performers or performances that will feature in (an arts event or programme) 

- select, organize, and present (online content, merchandise, information, etc.), typically using professional or expert knowledge.

But I prefer this definition of the verb which I found on www.oxfordlearnerdictionaries.com

to select, organize and look after the objects or works of art in a museum or an art gallery, etc.

- to collect, select and present information or items such as pictures, video, music, etc. for people to use or enjoy, using your professional or expert knowledge

Purpose. Strengths. Hope. 

A curator. Looking after the objects and works of art, collecting, selecting and presenting information or items for people to use and enjoy. Using MY professional or expert knowledge. 

Lekker word, curate!

Wednesday, 15 August 2018

Penguins

Oh dear. I really shouldn't go hunting for penguin pics while trying to work. I've been chuckling through the scrolling. There are some seriously pertinent images out there... let me be real... Don't "bad-mommy" me for these, please!

The feeling I get when I've dropped the kids at school on some days.
OK, I said I was being real!

The kind of feeling I have when approaching a kid to do their homework.
Head down. Madagascar-style. "Cute and cuddly boys!"
Ready to take on the world. Desperate measures. 

What I am tempted to do in the mornings to my daughter - however, she
bears a remarkable resemblance to the deadly polar bear in the mornings.
(By the way, the use of "bear" is intended!)

Some days I don't glide, I just waddle. That's ok.

What just hit me? And who are you? Do I know you?
Why are you looking at me like that?
Those moments of life that catch me by surprise.
Hope you're chuckling too. Happy Tuesday!  Oh wait, it's now Wednesday?!!

Wednesday, 1 August 2018

Splash

It's been such a busy few weeks. Starting with school hols and prep for a work week-long conference, then the conference itself, then hosting for two weeks while still doing school hols AND a small girl's 11th birthday party, birthday and then school cupcakes. A deep living of life with and then saying goodbye to a very dear friend. Celebrating and mourning the birthday of a young man who was, but now is (whole) in eternity. Followed by another four days of hosting and touring CT. Pack in site visits up north, glimpses of wild flowers dotting the West Coast, heartbreaking and heartwarming stories and several newsletters, a star-studded new website, minutes, salty moments of resourcing and attempting to learn a clicky language. Oh, and teacher meetings to resolve unpleasantness at school and reconstituting a geog book for the THIRD time this year. And two books to edit: one on a life in farming and the other on surviving a war of the nastiest kind.

Today is the first day to sit down at my screen and contemplate for over a month. To offer back, in silence, the many God-moments and connections of the past 6 weeks.) And yes, I should have typed in "six". It's better English.)

I am, frankly, really tired. Bone weary. A bit sniffy as I fight off the cold that is trying to sneak around my defences.

I am also more in love with my man who has unselfishly and at really great personal cost (he'd deny this) unwaveringly supported me by helping with kids, meals, ensuring our family and life is running mostly smoothly while I jet around the Western Cape and keep balls in the air. Golden balls, with hope written on them, but still juggling.

God, I am holding this space for you. Today. This pause, this contemplation, this moment suspended in air as I have launched into the air of today but have not yet splashed down into the seas of life and my city and my nation and my work.

Let your love fill me. May I be held by grace.

Splash.


Thursday, 7 June 2018

Deep calling

I stand on this rock as the water falls around
Pummelled and wet and still I can be found
River-deep and water-to-my-thigh
The wrestling of my spirit in my soul's exhausted sigh

All your waves have billowed over me
Standing in this wash as I close my eyes to see
Your grace and mercy have filled my every day
So that even now, in this torrent, I can truly say

Without church, position, platform, office, oratory
Without robes, oil, Bible or a pastor's fee
You are all in all - the Sacred Trinity
And I am in You and You are in me

We walk these paths of pouring our lives out
We kneel with the dying and we join in joy's shout
And now as I stand in Your river alone, stripped and bare
Your waters wash me, Your thunders are my fanfare

My heart is full of love, longings and of pain
Once again, I find, it is You in the rain
Wash me, call Me, I give Your church to You
Realising afresh, that You make all things new

I stand on this rock as the water falls around
Pummelled and wet and still I can be found
You are all in all - the Sacred Trinity
And I am in You and You are in me

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For Chris, as you stand on the Rock, with water all around. 

Wednesday, 6 June 2018

Embers

Wow, when you look up something and unexpectedly find this encouragement! Sharing it for those of you who might need it too.


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In intercession this morning and heard this prophetic word of encouragement from the Lord. Today is a day to receive renewed vision and hope. He is breathing His breath of life on those embers that are burning dull. He is fanning into flame a fire of renewed strength. Some of you have experienced measures of this in the past few months. A burning hot in your Spirit but circumstances have tried to hinder and pull you back into old cycles. Do not get pulled back into the old cycles. I see that He is calling us to go higher to receive an eagles vision in this time. What does an eagles vision mean? It means you see from high. To have eagles vision is likened to seeing from a prophetic sight that can only be obtained from soaring high in the Spirit with our Lord. Soar, rise to the glory of His throne room and you will see from His Kingdom perspective. When we see from the Lord's perspective you gain the revelation and insight to see, function and manuever in the midst of your circumstances . From this place you are renewed, refreshed and the fires fanned into flame. From this place of prophetic sight and renewed vision, I saw swords being placed in hands that are sharp, double-edged and effective. Weild the sword of the Spirit, the Word of God. Speak out those truths He has spoken to you. Now is not the time to be silent in those things He has spoken and revealed. Commit to those promises again. Pray in agreement, speak them out in agreement. "Say, Lord You will make a way, for Your Words are true and Your promises are yes and amen!" It is a time to see victory realized. Things are turning in this season. Things are turning around. And things are unfolding in surprising ways. It appeared circumstances would lead down a path one way. And it was not a path of hope, life and destiny. But, suddenly circumstances shift and what seemed to be impossible now is being realized. The turn around, life, healing, deliverance, restoration, open doors and victory are coming in new and unexpected ways! Take the steps He is leading you to take. Following His voice and leading. Allow His repositioning to unfold. Soar with Him, wield the sword of the Spirit, and follow Him down the new path.

(From Rebecca Greenwood - Let our Children Go authoress)

Monday, 28 May 2018

Far away birthdays on rainy Mondays

Today is my dad's birthday. I miss my dad so much and wish we lived closer. For walks. Coffee. That occasional sneaked cinnamon stick. To hold his hand.

In the craziness of work and events and kids and everything, today slid past with just a quick chat, an "I love you", kid phone calls and a prayer for the year ahead. It feels like this day was not celebrated and feted like it should have been.

So here's to you, Dad:
The man who first taught me to be loved, so that one day I could be a wife. 
The man who was kind and fair.
Who listened to my stories and encouraged my dreams.
Who let me explore the world (and prayed very hard while I did it).
Who loves my mom through her toughest times.

Love you.

Happy birthday. x

Monday, 16 April 2018

Isaiah 61 - read this with new eyes

me - blue
they - yellow

ISAIAH 61 - I've never seen this before! Look at what applies to me, and what applies to those I move towards with His love.

1 The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me,
because the LORD has anointed me
- to bring good news to the poor;
- he has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted,
- to proclaim liberty to the captives,
- and the opening of the prison to those who are bound;

- 2 to proclaim the year of the LORD's favour,
and the day of vengeance of our God;
- to comfort all who mourn;

- 3 to grant to those who mourn in Zion—
- to give them a beautiful headdress instead of ashes,
the oil of gladness instead of mourning,
the garment of praise instead of a faint spirit;


that they may be called oaks of righteousness,
the planting of the LORD, that he may be glorified.

4 They shall build up the ancient ruins;
they shall raise up the former devastations;
they shall repair the ruined cities,
the devastations of many generations.


5 Strangers shall stand and tend your flocks;
foreigners shall be your plowmen and vinedressers;

6 but you shall be called the priests of the LORD;

they shall speak of you as the ministers of our God;

you shall eat the wealth of the nations,
and in their glory you shall boast.

7 Instead of your shame there shall be a double portion;

instead of dishonor they shall rejoice in their lot;
therefore in their land they shall possess a double portion;
they shall have everlasting joy.


8 For I the LORD love justice;
I hate robbery and wrong;

I will faithfully give them their recompense,
and I will make an everlasting covenant with them.


9 Their offspring shall be known among the nations,
and their descendants in the midst of the peoples;
all who see them shall acknowledge them,
that they are an offspring the LORD has blessed.


10 I will greatly rejoice in the LORD;
my soul shall exult in my God,
for he has clothed me with the garments of salvation;
he has covered me with the robe of righteousness,
as a bridegroom decks himself like a priest with a beautiful headdress,
and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.


11 For as the earth brings forth its sprouts,
and as a garden causes what is sown in it to sprout up,
so the Lord GOD will cause righteousness and praise
to sprout up before all the nations.

Friday, 13 April 2018

Colour


Colour.
An explosion of light
That swirls through my heart
Catching my breath
And compelling me to spin

Colour.
An intimacy of heaven
Which softens my railings
And turns them into rainbows
Floating softly down to splash at my feet

You are colour.
And dance
And light
And rainbows
I am in awe



April 2018. Colour Conference. Alive.

Monday, 19 February 2018

Prayers for 2018

I meant to write this a couple of weeks back. We "saw" the new year in with some special friends. Well, we hugged at about 11.30 and all fell into bed so "saw" is a bit figurative. How-sum-ev-r!

On the first we all sat around their table sharing breakfast and everyone had to give examples of things that had happened in 2017:
- something funny
- anything difficult
- something you started doing
- best book you had read
- one thing God taught you
- the most fun thing you and your family did together

and lastly,

- one prayer for 2018.

Lots of laughs and chuckles. I want to share the prayers though.

C: a dearly loved but very ill child would go home to heaven
C: business would multiply
S & J: school would go well this year
L: to excel at tennis
A: the drought would end
J: dad would be able to come home and work from home
K: community

And just twelve days after praying these prayers, the first was answered. The dearly loved child breathed out peacefully HERE and stood up there and can run and talk and laugh and sing and play and jump and worship THERE!

I am still in awe of this first answer. 17 years here and an eternity whole and healed there. Those years were not wasted, I learnt. That child brought love and healing to many people. Our minds are offended at the level of trauma and disability... and then our hearts are operated on to expose and remove anger, frustration, hurt, bitterness, disassociation, impatience and more. Ouch. Freedom always comes with a price, Jesus shows us. How vast.

How inspiring.

How hard.

Thank you God for this answered prayer. For eternal life. For the light of Your presence in days that were dark. For moments of warmth in a seventeen year journey that ended/began in freedom. 

2017 to 2018. You, God, are the lifter of my head.

Monday, 5 February 2018

Of horn sharks, drills, cake, the agonies of bin day and, er, I think I have dirty feet

Monday arrived unexpectedly. It had such a mish mash of things crammed into just however many hours we have got too (it's just after 9pm).

Let's see. Small girl went on her first school camp. Great excitement, lots of prep, everything in plus brownies. And then as we waited to get on the bus, it all started to unravel with hugs, whispers of "but I can't phone you to say goodnight" and some hard blinking. And then sitting alone at her windowseat on the bus, outright tears. My mommy heart is completely wrung out for this bright but fragile child of mine. Praying for friends AT camp and lots of fun. And that she will find her place in this Grade for this season of her life.

Small boy rejoicing in single childhood, but rather subdued and missing his sister by supper time. We researched horn sharks for his oral, tried cold pizza as a test run for another school lunch alternative he might just eat and procrastinated through homework until the offer of minecraft was held out. Amazing how much faster you can get things done when there is a 20 minute session in your possible future! Still chuckling over his song of yesterday:

Dumb ways to die-iii-iii (duh-duh-da-duh) - Homework!
Dumb ways to die-iii-iii (duh-duh-da-duh) - Homework!

Dumb ways to die-iii-iii (duh-duh-da-duh)... Tidying up my roo-oomm!
Dumb ways to die-iii-iii (duh-duh-da-duh)... Tidying up my roo-oomm!

Ah, what's next? I'll skip over the stomach-clenching whine of the hygienist's polish drill and the "eerrccckkk" scrape of her torture tines, the sucking sound of the pump and the final relieved spit of pink water while wondering if you are actually covered in bits of your mouth (ick, so not-my-favourite-thing).

Bin Day!  The jigsaw puzzle of who gets what bin back after the truck has come through. 3 goes to 7 and 7 goes to 3 but 3 calls me... you get the memo. Quite fun. I got to haul 3 back to 7 and 7 back to 3 and catch up with the neighbours along the way.

Ah, that leave cake and dirty feet. Not related, happy to say. Monica, our char, politely reminded me as she was leaving last week that it's her birthday tomorrow, JUST in case I forget. Hence cake.

And hey, it's the water crisis. I am sure I can hop into bed with less than pristine feet? Er. Hmm, they might dirty the sheet. And darn it, that brings me back to the recollection that I forgot to wash Luke's school shirt, so the boy is without for tomorrow. Argh. Back to the water (washing) crisis. Hmm. Not much option of hanging it out to air these days - ha ha ha!

I should end with something spiritual. I think I can come up with something.

Contentment. It's all a bit nuts around here, but I am so glad to be where I am, with the people I have as friends, the school moms I do life with. My man. My kiddies. Rather rich. I used to always offer God my day back as a bouquet at the end of a day.

This is one weird bouquet. But I think He'll appreciate it. Although, I think I'd better wash those feet in the bucket after I get round to washing a small boy's shirt!

Thursday, 25 January 2018

The wonderful world of water... less

Capetonians are remarkably resilient. When we had the Eskom power outages the kids took to playing "blackout-blackout". I wonder whether, in 3 years time, they'll be playing "bucket-bucket"?

It's a thought. We've all known it was coming and that, rather like a freight train, the tracks are there, there's a whistle in the distance and a faint rumbling. The problem with playing chicken with a train is that it actually does move rather fast, and much faster than you think when it's right in front of you. I hope we can jump out of the way in time.

Yesterday was a classic case of leaping off the lines. I thought I'd test the waters (so as to say) and grab a 5l bottle or two for Justin. You know, Just-in Case? Eek. Splutter. Pick n Pay received several pallets at 10 am yesterday. Sold out by 10.30. WW got their shipment in at 10.30 and it was gone by 11.30. Water purchases are suddenly limited to a few bottles per customer. The WW website went down at lunch time. A visit to the local plastics warehouse saw thousands of 25l drums sold in just 3 days. The next shipment of 1000 (and people are waiting anxiously) is due this morning at 9 and I can guesstimate it will be gone in seconds. After all, I need to get four - one for us, one for mom-in-law and two for some friends. A faint tinge of "don't panic" is starting to hue my outlook on Day Zero.

And then there are the schools. Bish... I won't name them... is said to have imposed a R1000 per kid levy to take the school off the water grid. Not sure if that's per month, but it's an extra levy for the next three years. They had to cancel swimming because pools are not that refillable after too much competitive splashing. Our gala is next Tuesday, and then our school pool might close too.

S school in Newlands has requested each kid bring a 5l water, wet wipes and hand sanitiser to school. Our school hasn't done that, but they have plumbed one bathroom into ground water and only one tap works in each bathroom. Our school provided hand sanitiser (thank you Mr P) so I don't have to hunt it down today. Really, thank you! It's getting quite hard to find. And our kids are encouraged to bring their own water bottles to school to drink from so there's less wastage from taps.

So what can I derive from all the water chasing, the panic and the hoarding?

One, it's quite hard not to judge your friends when they tell you they have worked hard to reduce their water to just 7,000l a month and you are (self-righteously) using approximately 1,500l for the same size family. Ouch.

Carrying buckets, not flushing and washing clothes just once a week - how many wears can you get out of those school socks? - builds muscle and a bit of frustration. Especially when you are hunting for clean undies before work and can't find any.

A flush brings guilt, especially from the one toilet still connected to the mains.

Our pool (what a luxury to have a pool) has become a personal water source for washing and flushing if Day Zero happens and taps are finally turned off. In the meantime we toss the kids in for evening swims to save on showers. They come out mostly clean.

You can plumb a lot of downpipes to catch rain water. However, you need rain to catch.

Our low flow showerheads were a good investment. We can still shower at high speed, unlike many. Though we might be switching to buckets/wipes soon. I'm thinking of installing a beeping timer in the bathrooms for shower time as our gym has done. It might make banging on the bathroom door to cries of "Turn it off!" less painful on the hands and more soothing on the vocal cords.

Most importantly, as Mr P pointed out, the water crisis will not have been in vain when, after the rains have come, we view water as the precious resource it really is and continue to live differently.

My first-third world city. So resourced and actually so very vulnerable. All our save-ourself strategies show me that we cannot save ourselves. Together with millions of people, I stopped at 1pm yesterday and prayed fervently for rain, again.

Together. Stopped. Prayed. Fervently. Again.

Five keys to life. Five doors to hope. Why do we do this last? #PrayForRain #Revival


Thursday, 11 January 2018

Queues for character

Home Affairs. In South Africa, those two words send shivers of apprehension rippling through your heart. You never quite know if a visit to Home Affairs will be painless and quick, or drawn out and agonisingly slow. Tales abound of horrific queues, system crashes, minutes ticking by like hours and of hours that plod with roughshod feet across your once vibrant, now-chair-confined life. Ah!

So, I can summarise our visit to the centre in the middle of the Mother City as follows:

0 credit card facilities (no one at the machine today)
1 cash desk working
2 unimpressed kids
3 loo visits to the second floor
4 visits to the first floor
5 people at the passport desks (2 at the photo booths, 3 doing id/passport applications)
6 hours (in total from arrival at 6.20am to exit at 12.20pm)
7 different docs (2 unabridged birth certificates, 2 new id cards and 3 passports)

There was a moment when it all actually happened. All four of our numbers came up at once. So it was a run to the photo booths for biometrics and photos, then back to the chairs, then a comedy of who is who between counters 11 and 16 to submit all the required info. Picture kids running with id books up and down from me at counter 11 to Adam at counter 16. And a rather bemused waiting room as we tag teamed 5 different docs between 2 adults and 2 kids. I got the giggles. The lady serving me looked even more bemused. Perhaps they don't hear much laughter?

Oh. And ticket 173 was lost. Does that mean that someone, somewhere, will one day find a person clutching ticket 173 in a dusty corner of the grey edifice? Perhaps a skeleton? Scary thought.

Jessica liked the pigeon nesting on a ledge outside the ladies bathroom window. It had a newly hatched chick. I liked the guy selling black pens after I discovered the pen I brought had blue ink. Note to self, NEVER check the colour of your pen at 10pm the night before in the kitchen; rather check under a very bright lamp. Adam liked his book. Luke liked getting out of there.

I learned something important today. There are many amazing people who are remarkably patient, polite and respectful in my city. They endured the queues and frustration without complaining, sighing or looking at their watches. It's my hope that my kids also learnt something from the six hours we used up today (standing, sitting and leaning) in queues.

And when we got home, I asked them if they wanted to tell me again how bored they are to be stuck at home. Because if I hear "I'm bored" again, I will bung them back into the car and we can go stand in that queue again (evil mommy grin!). 

Friday, 5 January 2018

Mourning the passing of a mountain-sky-sea man

A lament (with hope) for an adventurer, climber, hiker, sailor and lover of the special places of this world - Ian Slatem - who tragically died climbing Arrow Final on Table Mountain while guiding clients at the start of 2018. I did not know you personally Ian, although I did meet you. You are sorely missed by your friends

A man who  sailed the sunrise where rolling sea meets the sky
And trod the mountains of ice which reach so high;
Explored the depths of rock with all the treasures of the earth 
Paused beside the tumbling waters where Cape disas are given birth.

And in the sanctity of wilderness, sky and ever-charging seas
Can be found a greater gift which a restless heart can seize
Creation’s many faces all beam a hidden glory
Ian has crossed to walk and sail a new and brighter story